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I can Motivate Myself .I am the creator of My Own self ,How? Part-4

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Many of us find ourselves in motivational slumps that we have to work to get out of.

Sometimes it’s like a continuous cycle where we are motivated for a period of time, fall out, and then have to build things back up again.

There is nothing more powerful for self-motivation than the right attitude. You can’t choose or control your circumstance, but you can choose your attitude towards your circumstances.

How I see this working is while you’re developing these mental steps, and utilizing them regularly, self-motivation will come naturally when you need it.

 

 

Vivek Kumar-Communication Skills Trainer
The purpose of Motivation is for self” So find it within and not outside you. Vivek Kumar

After reading this article you will be able to know the next 5 ways to keep yourself motivated from the series of  “100 ways to motivate yourself”.

This article is the 4th series of – ” I can Motivate myself. I am the creator of My Own Self, How?

Yes, You heard it right,  You can Motivate Yourself.

This article is published in a series of 5 ways of self-motivation and covers 100 ways to self-Motivation.

  1. Choose happy Few.
  2. Learn to Play a Role.
  3. Sit quietly and Talk to yourself. Stop For some time and do Nothing.
  4. Use The chemicals produced by your body, Yes, your brain chemicals
  5. Learn to lose your cool.

Self-motivation is the force that keeps driving us to achieve, improve, and move forward.

Self-motivation helps you to learn and grow – regardless of how difficult the situation is. That’s why self-motivated is such an essential tool to assist you in achieving goals and dreams.

Self-motivation is connected to how much you believe that you could achieve those targets with the skills and abilities you possess; and your expectation that if you put in enough hard work, you will succeed. In order to build the strongest levels of self-motivation, you’ll need “Self-confidence and self-efficacy.”, “Positive thinking, in the present and about the future.”, “Focus and strong goals.”  and also, “A motivating environment.”

Positive thinking is closely related to self-confidence as a factor in self-motivation. It’s crucial to treat things positively, especially when things aren’t going the way you would expect and ready to give up.

If you think that things are not going in the correct direction or that you are not even close to success, those thoughts may influence attitude in such a way that your predictions will come true. Your judgments can have a key influence on how you are going to perform, so make sure that your thoughts are positive all-time.

Positive thinking drives you to think about an attractive future that you want to realize. When you presume positive outcomes, your selections will be more optimistic, and you’ll be more likely to work hard towards your goals which helps you bridge the gap between wanting something and going out to get it. Moreover, research shows happiness increases productivity and makes you more successful

Self-motivation doesn’t come naturally to everyone. And even those who are highly self-motivated need some extra help every now and then. Your attitude and beliefs can dramatically influence the likelihood of your success.

Examine ways to improve your self-motivation, and regularly reassess your motivation levels. If you actively keep your internal motivation high, you can drastically increase the likelihood of achieving your hopes, dreams, and visions of the future.

The last thing to address is surrounding yourself with people share the same visions that remind you of your objectives, then help you with your inner motivation. These are exterior influences that could potentially get you motivated from the outside. Nevertheless, you always want more factors you have working for you.

Motivated to succeed
The Harder You work for something, the greater you will feel when you achieve it”

 

Let’s dwell on the Five Ways to Self Motivation-

Choose the happy few.

Just, walk away from friends who don’t support the changes in your life. Do it very Politely.

There will be friends who will not like you changing. They will be jealous and afraid every time you make a change. They will see your new motivation as a condemnation of their own lack of it. In many ways, they will bring you back down to who you used to be. Identify such friends and family members who do this. Actually, They do not know, what to do?

The people you spend time with will change your life in one way or another. If you associate with cynics, they’ll pull you down with them. If you associate with people who support you in being happy and successful, you will have a head start on being happy and successful. Throughout the day we have many choices regarding who we are going to be with and talk to. Don’t just be attracted to the coffee machine and participate in the negative gossip because it’s the only game in town. It will drain your energy and decrease your own optimism. We all know who lifts us up, and we all know who brings us down. It’s okay to start being more careful about to whom we give our time.

In his inspiring book “Spontaneous Healing”, Andrew Weil recommends:

“Make a list of friends and acquaintances in whose company you feel more alive, happier, more optimistic. Pick one whom you will spend sometime this week.”

According to a philosopher

“If I were to wish for anything, I should not wish for wealth and power, but for the passionate sense of the potential, for the eye which, ever young and ardent, sees the possible. Pleasure disappoints, possibility never.”

Learn to play a role

Your personality does not decide your future. In fact, your personality is not even determined by your personality. There is no such code in you that determines who you will be. You are the thinker who determines who you will be. How you act is who you become.

Enroll in some acting class, it would help you deal with your overwhelming stage fright. You will learn something much more valuable than how to relax in front of a crowd. You will learn that your emotions were tools for you to use, not demonic forces. You will learn that your emotions were yours to work with and change at will.

Playing a role lets you enter into a character and you get a chance to live the life of someone you are acting as, feel the character and try to visualize yourself living the full character. This experience of acting will let you know that the audience thinks, you just like the character you played in the drama. The audience is unknown to your actual self, so actually, you have given birth to your new personality as a character in the drama.

Thus this experiment will definitely make you convinced that your personality and character are not a born gift, rather it is something that you can develop in yourself by practicing and following your life consciously.

 

Sit quietly and Talk to yourself. Stop For some time and do Nothing.

For a long time, all by yourself, sit quietly, absolutely alone. Completely relax. Don’t allow the television or music to be on. Just be with yourself. Watch for what happens. Feel your sense of belonging to the silence. Observe insights starting to appear. Observe your relationship with yourself starting to get better and softer and more comfortable.

Sitting quietly allows your true dream life to give you hints and flashes of motivation. In this information-rich, interactive, civilized life today, you are either living your dream or living someone else’s. And unless you give your own dream the time and space it needs to formulate itself, you’ll spend the better part of your life simply helping others make their dreams come true. “All of man’s troubles,” said Blaise Pascal, “stem from his inability to sit alone, quietly, in a room for any length of time.” Notice that he did not say some of the man’s troubles, but all.

Once, during a discussion, a person asked me, “Why is it that I get my best ideas when I’m in the shower?” I just asked the person, “When else during your day are you alone with yourself, without any distractions?” As the person was honest, he answered, obviously never.

Great ideas come to us in the shower when it’s the only time in the day when we’re completely alone. No television, no movies, no traffic, no radio, no family, no talkative pets—nothing to distract our mind from
conversing with itself.

“Thinking,” said Plato, “is the soul talking to itself.” People worry they will die of boredom or fear if they are alone for any length of time. Other people have become so distraction-addicted that they would consider sitting alone by themselves like being in a sensory deprivation tank.

The truth is that the only real motivation we ever experience is self-motivation that comes from within. And being alone with ourselves will always give us motivating ideas if we stay with the process long
enough. The best way to truly understand the world is to remove yourself from it. Psychic entropy—the seesaw mood swing between boredom and anxiety—occurs when you allow yourself to become confused by massive input. By being perpetually busy, glued to your cell phone, out the world all day with no time to reflect, you will guarantee yourself an eventual overwhelming sense of confusion.

The cure is simple and painless. The process is uncomplicated. You do not need to leave your room,

“Remain sitting at your table and listen. Do not even listen. Simply wait. Do not
even wait. Be quite still and solitary. The world will freely offer itself to you to be unmasked. It has no choice, it will roll in ecstasy at your feet.” In other words, don’t just do something…sit there.

 

Use The chemicals produced by your body, Yes, your brain chemicals-

There are drugs that you can use to motivate yourself with and I’m not talking about amphetamine or crack (a deadly form of child’s play). Instead, you can get into those energizing chemicals in your system that gets activated when you laugh…or sing…or dance…or run…or hug someone. When you’re having fun, your body chemistry changes and you get new biochemical surges of motivation and energy.

And there isn’t anything you do that can’t be transformed into something interesting and uplifting. Victor Frankl has written startling accounts of his life in the Nazi concentration camps, and how some prisoners created new universes unto themselves inside their own minds. It might sound absurd, but truly imaginative people can access their inner chemical creativity in the loneliness of a prison cell. Don’t keep trying to go outside yourself searching for something that’s fun. It’s not out there anywhere. It’s inside. The opportunity for fun is in your own energy system—your synergy of heart and mind. That’s where you’ll find it.

Pro Football Hall of Famer Fran Tarkenton recommends looking at any task you do as fun.
“If it’s not fun,” he says, “you’re not doing it right.”

People who get high on marijuana often find they can laugh at anything.
The problem with them is that they think this kind of “fun” is inherent in marijuana. It’s not. The capacity for fun was already there inside of them. The marijuana just artificially opened them up to it. But the
physical and psychological price paid for such a drugged opening is not worth the high. (I wish I didn’t know this first hand, but I do.) The price drug users pay is this: Their self-esteem suffers because they didn’t create the fun they had—they thought the drugs did it for them. So they keep shrinking, the more they use, into greater paranoia and self-disgust. Soon they’re using the drug just to feel normal.
William Burroughs, a former drug addict and author of Naked Lunch, discovered something that was very interesting and bitterly amusing to him after finally recovering from his addictions.
“There isn’t any feeling you can get on drugs,” he said “that you can’t
get without drugs.”

Make a commitment to yourself to find the natural highs you need to stay motivated. Start by finding out what it does to your mood and energy to laugh, to sing, to dance, to walk, to run, to hug someone, or to get something done. Then support your experiments by telling yourself that you’re not
interested in doing anything that isn’t fun. If you can’t immediately see the fun in something, find a way to create it. Once you have made a task fun, you have solved the problem of self-motivation.

Learn to lose your cool

You can create a self that doesn’t care that much about what people think. You can motivate yourself by leaving the painful self-consciousness of high school behind. Because our tendency is to go so far in the timid, non-assertive direction, it might be a profitable over-correction to adopt these internal commands: Look bad. Take a risk. Lose face. Be yourself. Share yourself with someone. Open up. Be vulnerable. Be human. Leave your comfort zone. Get honest. Experience the fear. Do it anyway.

“Show me a guy who’s afraid to look bad,” said actor Rene Auberjonois,
“and I’ll show you a guy you can beat every time.” The first time I ever talked to my author and psychotherapist friend regarding my self-confidence, over the telephone, and he agreed to work with me on building my own self-confidence and personal growth. It wasn’t long into the phone conversation before he asked me about my voice. “I am very interested in your voice,” he said, with a tone of curiosity.
Hoping he might be ready to give me a compliment I asked her to explain.
“Well,” he said. “It’s so lifeless. A real monotone. I wonder why that is.”

Embarrassed, I had no explanation.   I was completely unaware and very surprised that it
seemed to her that I was coming across a voice like someone out of Night of the Living Dead.

The truth was that during that period in my life, I was living scared. Things weren’t going well for me financially, I had serious health problems in my family, and I had that mildly suicidal feeling that accompanies an increasing sense of powerlessness over one’s problems.

(I now think one way a lot of men hide their fears is by assuming a
macho kind of dull indifference. I know now that’s what I had done.
That a psychotherapist could hear it immediately in my voice was
unnerving, though.)

Trying to understand why I covered fear with indifference, I remembered that back in my high school the “cool” guys were always the least enthusiastic guys. They spoke in monotones, emulating their heroes. Shailendra was the coolest of all. He was so indifferent and unenthusiastic you couldn’t even understand
him when he spoke. One of the first homework assignments Devers my friend gave me was to
rent the video Gone with the Wind and study how fearlessly Clark Gable revealed his female side. This sounded weird to me. Gable a female? I knew Gable was always considered a true “man’s man” in all
those old movies, so I couldn’t understand what my friend was talking about, or how it would help me.
But when I watched the movie, it became strangely clear. Clark Gable allowed himself such a huge emotional range of expression, that I could actually identify scenes where he was revealing a distinctly female side to his character’s personality. Did it make him less manly? No. Curiously, it made him more real, and more compelling. From that time on, I lost my desire to hide behind an indifferent
monotonous person. I committed myself to get on the road to creating a
self that included

a wider range of expression, without a nervous preoccupation with coming off like a man’s man.
I also started noticing how much we seem to love vulnerability in others but don’t trust it in ourselves.
But we can learn to trust it! Just a little at first. Then we can build that vulnerability until we’re not
afraid to open up into an ever-widening spectrum of self-revelation. By
losing face, we connect to the real excitement of life. And what if I don’t always come off as an indifferent man’s man? Frankly, my dear, I don’t give a damn.

Conclusion-

Motivation is just, within you, do not find it outside you. Spend some time talking to yourself, give yourself the extra room to organize your thoughts. Never let the Past hinder your present and never be very concerned about the future. If you can shape your present, your future is well secured, and your past can only motivate you.

 

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I Can Motivate Myself. I am The Creator Of My Own Self. How ? Part 1

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Motivation is something that we keep searching for every moment from any external sources like other personalities, movies, Success stories, and many other sources.

Have we ever thought that we can Motivate ourselves?

How to Motivate ourselves?

After reading this article you will be able to think about 100 ways to motivate yourself.

Yes, You heard it write  You can Motivate Yourself.

This article will be published in a daily series of 5 ways of self-motivation and cover 100 ways to self-Motivation.

Let’s dwell on it.

When we leave this world, we will ask ourselves one question: What’s
Different? What’s different because I was here? And the answer to that question will be the difference that we made.
All of our thoughts and feelings won’t matter anymore when we are in our deathbeds asking that question. What will matter is the action we took and the difference that it made.

Yet we continue to obsess about our thoughts and become fascinated with our feelings. We are offended by other people. We want to prove we are right. We make other people wrong. We are disappointed in some people and resent others. It goes on and on and none of it will matter on that deathbed.

Action will be all that matters.

We could have made a difference every hour, every day if we had wanted to.
So how do we do that? How do we motivate ourselves to get into action? How do we live a life of action and difference-making?

You Have No Personality
Do you think that you have a fixed personality, It is just a myth. It is self-limiting and it denies us our power of continuous creation.
In our ongoing creation of who we are, nothing has a greater impact on that process than the choice we make between optimism and pessimism. There are no optimistic or pessimistic personalities; there are only single, individual choices for optimistic or pessimistic thoughts.

Charlie Chaplin once entered a “Charlie Chaplin Look-alike Contest” in
Monte Carlo and the judges awarded him third place!
Personality is overrated. Who we are is up to us every moment.
The choices we make for our thinking either motivate us or they do not.
And although clear visualization of a goal is a good first step, a joyfully motivated life demands more. To live the life you want to live, the action is required. As Shakespeare said, “Action is eloquence.” And as a psychologist and author Dr. Nathaniel Branden has written, “A goal without an action plan is a daydream.” Motion creates the self. In my experience as a Professional, Coach, consultant, and writer, I have accumulated many ways of thinking that lead directly to motivation.  I am always looking for ways of thinking that energize the mind and get us going again.

Series 1-

5 Effective Ways for Self Motivation

1. Get on your deathbed-

Deathbed” exercise.

Let’s imagine yourselves  lying on your own deathbed and
fully realize the feelings connected with dying and saying good-bye.
Then mentally invite the people in your life who were
important to you to visit your bedside, one at a time. As you visualize each
friend and relative coming in to visit you, you have to speak to them out
loud. you have to say to them what you wanted them to know as you are dying.
As you speak to each person, you would feel your voice breaking. Somehow you can’t help breaking down. Your eyes are filled with tears. You are experiencing such a sense of loss.

You just realized that “It was not my own life I was mourning; it was the love I was losing”.

To be more exact, it was a communication of love that had never been there.
During this difficult exercise, you really can see how much you left out of
your life. How many wonderful feelings you had about others, that you never explicitly expressed.

At the end of the exercise, You will be an emotional mess. You may even feel crying. But when these emotions will clear, some wonderful things will happen. Now you will know what was really important, and who really mattered to you.

“Death can be more exciting than life.”

This exercise will lead you to vow, not to leave anything to chance. You can make up
your mind never to leave anything unsaid. You will want to live as if you may
die at any moment. The entire experience will alter the way you related to
people ever since.

Remember we don’t have to wait until we’re actually near death to receive these
benefits of being mortal. We can create the experience anytime we
want.

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Many of us (including myself) keep pretending that our life’s game
will have no end. We keep planning to do great things someday when
we feel like it. We assign our goals and dreams to that imaginary island
in the sea that Denis Waitley calls “Someday Isle.” We find ourselves
saying, “Someday I’ll do this,” and “Someday I’ll do that.”
Confronting our own death doesn’t have to wait until we run out of life.
In fact, being able to vividly imagine our last hours on our deathbed
creates a paradoxical sensation: the feeling of being born all over
again—the first step to fearless self-motivation. “People living deeply,”
wrote poet and diarist Anaïs Nin, “have no fear of death.”
And as Bob Dylan has sung, “He who is not busy being born is busy
dying.”

2. Stay hungry.

If You are hungry, You will ask for the food, If you can’t get the food, you will try different ways, in some situations when there is no choice you may be compelled to beg for food. As you are hungry for food you will not be able to concentrate on anything else other than the food to satisfy your hunger. You will try different ways to reach your desired food, you will ask for help, you will be desperate about the food, and finally, your efforts will win and you will get your food. your efforts will not stop unless you satisfy your hunger.

 

Now imagine you are not hungry and you have a lot of free time, and you entered a restaurant, will you go and try to get the food? No, certainly not, you will keep your hands folded and wait for the waiter to come to you and ask for the order.

Means, we continue to do efforts when we are hungry for something.

Thus being hungry for something is one of the most important factors that keep you motivated.

Example For some personalities who proved that Staying hungry was the reason for their success and motivation.

 

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“Disability is just a state of mind” It can do no harm to one’s abilities.

The above statement is proved true by the Indian Film and Television Actress Sudha Chandram.

Today this Indian actress and classical dancer need no introduction. Her hunger for Dance and acting made her what she is today.

Sudha Chandran was born in Mumbai on 27th September 1965 and her family ground from Kerala, her father K.D.Chandran worked at USIS and is a former actor. Sudha Chandran earned her B.A. from Mithibai College, Mumbai and later on, she did an M.A. in Economics.

She met with an accident when she was just 16.

Doctors missed a small wound in her ankle and plastered it, which later got infected and there was no alternative left but to cut her leg.

Sudha Chandran says that this period was the toughest time of her life.

She overcame her disability by getting a prosthetic “Jaipur Foot” and became one of the most popular and acclaimed classical dancers of the country. She returned to dancing after a gap of two years and performed in India, Saudi Arabia, USA, UK, Canada, UAE, Qatar, Kuwait, Bahrain, Yemen, and Oman. Her biography is part of the curriculum for school children in the age group of 8-11.

 

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Yuvraj Walmiki-The Hockey Man, who was rejected 13 times.

Yes, you heard it right, this man was rejected 13 times by the Indian journeyer Hockey Camp, anyone can start looking for other options in life if he/she is rejected more than 3 times.

It is just a normal statistics, but, he who has confidence in his abilities and strong burning desire in the heart, turns every rejection into a learning experience and keeps on adding to his experience.

Yuvraj Walmiki is one live example of such a determined player, whose commitment towards his game is far above any rejection or selection.

He was born on 29 November 1989. He is the only Indian player to have played German Hockey League for 8 years continuously. Also, he is the first hockey player to have participated in (Fear Factor) Khatron Ke Khiladi season 7. He is the brand ambassador of DGS (NGO).

Despite playing both at the club level and regional level, self-motivated Yuvraj was faced with, what he calls, the ‘most discouraging situation’ of his career to date.

He says,

“Even after being selected for the Junior World Cup team, I was not allowed to play at the last moment.”

With just two days to go, for the tournament, he was informed that he had been removed from the team, and the reason given was that he did not have much international experience.

Yuvraj recalls: “I told them that until and unless you give me international experience, how do I get it? That was the most hurting incident in my life since I started playing.”

For the next four months, he stopped playing. But he moved on. And as we look today, he just created history.

Let’s Look into his hockey journey-

He represented India in the year 2014 Rabobank Hockey World Cup in The Hague (Netherlands ).

He played Pre World cup in The Hague (the Netherlands)

He played the Netherlands test series in Amsterdam in the year 2013 and won Gold Medal

He was the part of Champions Trophy in the year 2012 in Australia (Melbourne). The team entered semi-finals after 30 years.

He won the bronze Medal at Sultan Azlan Shah Cup in the year 2012, in Malaysia

He woned Gold Medal in the Olympic Qualifies in the year 2012, Delhi

He owned Gold Medal at the South Africa test series in Delhi in the year 2012

he owned silver Medal in Tri-Series (India, Australia, and Pakistan) in Australia in the year 2011

He participated in Lanco super series in Australia in the year 2011

He owned Silver Medal in Champions challenge in South Africa in the year 2011

He owned Gold Medal at Asian Champions Trophy in China in the year 2011

He Owned Silver Medal by representing India in the South Asian Games in the year 2010 in Dhaka

He played for the Delhi Waveriders for the last 3 years. Won a Silver Medal in season 1, Gold Medal in Season 2, and Bronze in Season 3.

He became the first Indian Brand Ambassador for the Australian brand Ritual

He is the Brand Ambassador for Do Good Sports (NGO) in Mumbai

He is the only Indian player to play in German Hockey League for 4 years continuously

He is the highest Goalscorer in German League for 2 years – 2010 and 2011

He is the best Player in Mumbai Hockey League from the year 2004 to 2007.

All the above achievements would have not been a reality if Yuvraj Walmiki would have given up even after his 13th rejection. He was motivated even after this because of his hunger for hockey.

So, the message is clear that we must keep chasing our dreams, we must keep our hunger alive in search of that one day which will start our journey towards success.

A major part of living a life of self-motivation is having something to
wake up for in the morning—something that you are “up to” in life so
that you will stay hungry.
The vision can be created right now—better now than later. You can
always change it if you want, but don’t live a moment longer without
one. Watch what being hungry to live that vision does to your ability to
motivate yourself.

 

3. Tell yourself a true lie.

I remember when I saw a young girl who participated
in a school poetry reading in which all her classmates had to write a “lie
the poem” about how great they were.
They were supposed to make up untruths about themselves that made
them sound unbelievably wonderful. I realized as I listened to the poems
that the children were reciting an unintended version of what they intended to be in the future.

By “lying” to themselves they were creating a vision of who they wanted to be.
It’s noteworthy, too, that public schools are so out of touch with the
motivational sources of individual achievement and personal success
that in order to invite children to express big visions for themselves they
have to invite the children to “lie.”

Most of us are unable to see the truth of who we could be. The young girl’s school developed an unintended solution to that difficulty.

If it’s hard for you to imagine the potential in yourself, then you might
want to begin by expressing it as a fantasy, as did the children who
wrote the poems. Think up some stories about who you would like to
be. Your subconscious mind doesn’t know you’re fantasizing.

Soon you will begin to create the necessary blueprint for stretching your
accomplishments. Without a picture of your highest self, you can’t live
into that self. Fake it till you make it. The lie will become the truth one day.

 

 

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4. Always Keep your eyes on the prize.

Most of us never really focus. We constantly feel a kind of irritating
psychic chaos because we keep trying to think of too many things at
once.
Most of us tend to lose our focus in life because we’re perpetually worried about so
many negative possibilities. Rather than focusing on the end goal,
we worry about all the ramifications of falling. Rather than focusing on
our goals, we are distracted by our worries and fears.
But when you focus on what you want, it will come into your life.
When you focus on being a happy and motivated person, that is who you will be.

 

One day the A coach wanted to show his students a new technique of shooting an arrow. He told his students to cover his eyes with a cloth and then he shot his arrow. When he opened his eyes, he saw the target with no arrow in it and when he looked at his students, they looked embarrassed because their teacher had missed.

The Coach asked them, “What lesson do you think I intend to teach you all today?” They answered, “We thought you would show us how to shoot at the target without looking.” The Coach said, “No, I taught you that if you want to be successful in life, don’t forget the target. You have to keep an eye on the target, otherwise, you may miss a good opportunity in life.” They looked at each other, impressed with the lesson.

The moral of the story is we need to consistently focus on what we want and we need to realize that :

  • What thoughts we focus on we FEEL, therefore our thoughts have a direct effect on our emotions
  • What we focus on and feel we attract in our lives. Our destiny is consistently shaped by our thoughts.

 

5. Learn to sweat in peace-

The harder you are on yourself, the easier life is on you. Or, as they say
in the Navy Seals, the more you sweat in peacetime, the less you bleed
in war

There is a very famous quote by Bill gates,

“Amateurs Practice Until They Get It Right; Professionals Practice Until They Can’t Get It Wrong.”

So, You need to practice even when you are not actually facing the problem because if you keep practicing, you will be motivated and you will be charged to take up the responsibilities at any time.

This practice is well followed in defense, where soldiers have to practice every day, irrespective of whether they have to face war or not.

Even those students come out with flying colors, who practice throughout the year and not just during the examination.

According to Bill Gates,

The key to success in any field is, to a large extent, a matter of practicing a specific task for a total of around 10,000 hours.

If you dream to become a Future leader, you need to start practicing leadership skills and qualities while you’re still an amateur… at some points in time, some people will laugh at you, even your close friends will find you weird. But at a certain point, you’ll get your shot and guess what? you’ve practiced all your life for it and you’ll be more than ready!

 

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Hai, Everyone Must be thinking that what is this New journey of Successpreneure,

Every time I type this word I get an error in my writing- Yes,This encourages me to name my journey of teaching and coaching as Successpreneure, something new.

It’s a word that is still not available in the dictionary, but, creating success stories will definitely find this word a position in the world dictionary.

I am Vivek Kumar, on a mission to develop and groom 100000 sales Representatives to be a successful communicator and a successful Personality.

Question is Why I have chosen this Word, the answer is very simple, because,if a person who is his own boss, who creates his own business by progressively following and implementing a new idea can be called as an entrepreneur, then, why can’t I call a person who is passionate about learning and developing himself for some job, by his own efforts and determination,be called as a Successpreneure .

Yes, this place is for everyone who wants to enhance communication skills, writing skills, presentation skills,Negotiation skills and many other skills required for self development and improving job skills to become successful in life.

My Plan is to take onboard 30 Successpreneures and develop them in all success skills, these persons will go on to create more successpreneures and the count should go on to millions within 5 years.

Remember this is not a journey to make money, but a journey to serve by creating successpreneures across the country.

Any one passionate about this journey to self improvement and improving skills for success can join the journey through knowledgewithvivek and start making a difference for self and society.

This platform is for those who wants to learn, no matters what is their present level.

Topics to be Covered

  1. Understanding Individual goals.
  2. Training on Mindset
  3. Training on Speaking, Listening, and Reading skills.
  4. Training on Vocabulary Building.
  5. Training on Life Skills.
  6. Modules on Motivation.
  7. Understanding failure.
  8. Understanding the Importance of being proactive
  9. Finding one’s passion in life.
  10. Practice sessions.

Road Map-How and when classes will be done-

  1. Weekly Sunday sessions on webinar Platform
  2. support on mail to track the progress.
  3. Dedicated whats-app group for a daily dose of new Vocabulary and motivational messages to keep you charged and continue going.
  4. Dedicated Facebook and Instagram groups to share progress and assignments.
  5. Full support for serious and motivated successpreneures.

Want To join this Team of Ist generation Successpreneures………….

Only 30 persons allowed in the group…………………

The journey starts 5th September 2020-…………..continues for 1 Year.

Charges- Your Time for 2 hours on Sunday…………………. and…..no other charges.

How to get In- Just send the answer to 2 questions-

1) Why do you want to improve your skills?

2) Why you should be included in the journey?

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Send your answers to 9234916333 or email at – dipupop@yahoo.co.in

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Kalki Subramaniam

Kalki Subramaniam ,a transgender’s success story.

Success is a journey and it is not meant for any specific cast,cred or gender.It is all about just changing dreams without thinking about who I am and just, about the difference I can make it to the society.

Presenting a masterpiece story , a successful journey of a transgender Kalki Subramaniam, an artist, actress, writer, inspirational speaker and entrepreneur from Tamil Nadu.

 Born in Pollachi, a town in Tamil Nadu into a working-class family, Kalki was an academically bright student and topper in her class. Kalki is credited with two master’s degrees: Masters in Journalism Mass Communication and Masters in International Relations. During her postgraduate studies, she started publishing a monthly magazine in Tamil for transgender women called Sahodari , meaning sister. This is the first Tamil magazine published for transgender people in India.

It was the year 2005, when Kalki started campaigning for transgender rights in India. She is known for her innovative activism using technology, art, films, and literature as tools to voice for transgender empowerment. She was one of India’s well-known campaigners behind the Supreme Court of India’s judgment legalizing transgender identity.In 2009 when a popular matrimonial website rejected the matrimonial listing of a transgender woman, she took it as a challenge and launched India’s first matrimonial website for transgender people. The project was later closed due to lack of financial support. She has created more than 12 documentary films on LGBT rights and has also appeared in international documentary films. In 2010, she trained many underprivileged transgender women in community journalism and encouraged them to make short documentary films telling their own stories. When she lived in Auroville, she protested against encroachments of village lands by Auroville. In October 2019, Kalki organised the first LGBTOI pride march in Coimbatore city of Tamil Nadu.

In 2008, Kalki founded the Sahodari Foundation, an organization that speaks out for transgender people in India. In 2017, Subramaniam found the Transhearts art project, through which she has trained more than 200 transgender people in creating expressive artworks supporting their livelihood through workshops.

In 2011 kalki enters the Tamil Film industry,started with a lead role in Tamil Film,Narthagi,which focused around the lives of transgender people. She made a special appearance in the 2018 film Sarkar  which made her very popular.She is the first transgender woman in India to do a lead role in a motion picture. In 2019, Subramaniam acted in a lead role in a parallel Hindi feature film named Kalashnikov-The Lone Wolf which won the best film jury honours at the Dada Saheb Phalke Film Festival.

Kalki’s has also shown an impact in artworks ,her art work is considered vibrant and colourful all over the world. She has been invited to USA, Canada, Netherlands, and Germany to speak on art and activism.In 2016, Subramaniam sold her paintings through a crowdfunding campaign and funded the education of underprivileged transgender women. Her art speaks without words, providing transgender victims of sexual and physical abuse a freedom to express their pain through art called the Red Wall Project, also known as the Shut Up! Show. Hundreds of transgender people have participated in the project across the different States of India and wrote their testimonials on a white paper with a red palm impression to show protest against sexual exploitation.In November 2019, Kalki paid a tribute art show to the late Bollywood actress Sridevi by exhibiting digital portraits of Sridevi. Sridevi has been her inspiration since childhood.

In 2015, Kalki’s collection of Tamil poems on transgender lives titled Kuri Aruthean was published . The collection consisted of 25 poems with line-drawings by Kalki. She has also written number of articles and essays in online and print publications. In 2018, three of her poems from the poetry collection Kuri Aruthean were translated in German language and published in an art journal. Six of her poems from the book were adopted into poetic short films titled Vadu (The Scar) directed by herself. She has also written many articles in Indian print and online publications on LGBT rights in India.

She is The recipient of achievers award from Coimbatore Lawyers Association.In 2014, she was chosen by Facebook as one of the 12 inspiring women of the world who used Facebook for community development. In 2016, she was nominated by NDTV For it’s women of worth Award under the arts category.

In February 2017, she was invited by Harvard Business School, Harvard University to speak on behalf of the sexual minorities, and represent the Indian transgender community. She received a standing ovation for her speech.  

The journey of Kalika Subramanyam is inspiring and motivating ,and it makes us to realize that we can make a difference in the society,if we have our will right,it does not matter how and where we are born,everyone is equal in the eyes of God,it is we ,who have created all the confusions in the society.

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Steve Jobs-Failure to Success(Feb-1955-October 5,2011)

Steve Jobs-The Man who is known for beating failures,learning from failures and staying motivated despite of all odds. People who do not know his history will never believe that he was a college dropout.

Steve Jobs was born in San Francisco,California on Feb 24,1955 to a unwed mother who went out to offer him for adoption to his new parents. Jobs grew up in the San Francisco Bey Area.

Steve joined Reed college in 1972, his parents had to invest good amount of money to send him to the college,but he was not interested in the type of education that he was getting at the college, the lectures bored him and he could not connect himself from the learning,He had no idea what he was going to do in life and how the college education was going to help him find the purpose of life.He thought he was just spending the hard earn money of his parents.

Finally he decided to dropout from the college. He was confident that he will be able to work out his life’s purpose by himself.In his own words “looking back it was one of the best decisions that I had ever taken.”

During his early days after drooping out from college Jobs did not had any living room,so he slept on the floor of his friends room.He used to collect and return coke bottles for $ 0.05 deposit to buy food with.He used to walk 7 miles every Sunday night to get one good meal a week at the “Hare Krishna Temple”.He loved and enjoined the food.He was really fascinated by the temple , he stumbled into by following his curiosity and intuitions turned out to be priceless later on.

At that time the Reed college offered the world’s best Calligraphy instruction.As jobs was dropped out of the college , so he did not had to attend the regular classes,he decided to join the calligraphy classes and learn the art.He learnt about Serif and San Serif typefaces and varying the amount of space between different letter combinations, he also learnt about what makes great typography great.

Stev Jobs felt that this art was beautiful,historical,artistically Subtle in a way that science could not capture and that was really fascinating for him.

10 years later when Steve jobs was designing the first Macintosh computer,all his learnings came back and he designed it all into the Mac.This was the first computer with beautiful typography. Steve realized that if he had not dropped out of the regular college and dropped in the Calligraphy course following his passion then Mac would have never been loaded with multiple typefaces or proportionally spaced front ends.

While being at college it was impossible for Jobs to connect the dots – He believed that “You can not connect the dots looking forward but you can connect the dots looking backward”.

We have to trust that the dots will connect some where in future .We have to trust in our gut feeling, destiny,life and karma, because this will give us the confidence to follow our heart,even if it leads us to leave the well paid work path and that will make all the difference.

At the age of 20, Steve Jobs was lucky to find what he loved to do in life, Along with his partner Woz he started Apple in his parent’s garage . They worked hard and in 10 years grew Apple from just the two member team working in a garage to a 2 billion dollar company with over 4000 employees.

It was just a year passed when Steve Jobs and Woz had realized their finest creation, the Macintosh . Steve Jobs had turned 30 years of age when he was fired from Apple.

The question is how can someone be fired from the company that he himself started ?

In words of Steve jobs-

” As Apple grew I hired someone who I thought was very talented to run the company with me, all went well for the first year,but then our vision of future began to diverge and eventually we had a falling out. When we did the Board of Directors sided with . So at 30 I was out from the company I started ,and,Very Publicly Out.”

This incidence led loose Jobs focus of his entire adult life,he thought every thing was finished.This was really devastating . At this point of time Jobs was not able to figure out,what to do for the next few months.He felt that he had let down the previous generations of entrepreneurs. He considered himself to be a public failure and even thought to run out of the valley.

But, still somewhere in deep heart he still kept loving what he did.The events at Apple did not changed him even a bit.

Jobs decided to start over,It was not seen at that point of time ,but, getting fired from Apple was the best thing that Could have ever happened in his life. He was suddenly relieved from the heaviness of being successful and he felt very light ,just like a beginner who was less sure about everything.Now he was free to enter one of the most creative periods of his life.

During the next five years he started a company named “Next” and another company “Pixar”.During this period , Jobs felled in love with an amazing women and married her.

Pixar went on to create the World’s first computer animated feature film, Toy Story,and that went out to be the most successful animation Studio in the world.

Later on Apple bought Next, and Jobs returned back to Apple.

In words of Steve Jobs, “I am pretty sure none of these would have not happened if I haven’t been fired from Apple” According to Jobs it was like an awful tasting medicine, but the patient needed it to get well.

Steve Jobs has given great philosophy regarding death –

At the age of 17 Jobs had read one Quote that – “If you live each day as if it was your last day,Someday you’ll must certainly be right.” This quote had such a great impact on his life that every morning he will not forget to look into the mirror and ask himself “If today were my last day of the life,would I want to do what I am about to do today?” and whenever the answer has been “NO” for many days in a row, he will decide that he needs to change something.

One day Jobs was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer. His doctor advised him to go home and get his affairs in order, this was the doctor’s code for him to prepare to die. Jobs lived with that diagnosis for the whole day and later in the evening he underwent biopsy. The result of the biopsy stated that Jobs having a very rare tumor that could be treated by surgery. He underwent the surgery and got well.

Thus he escaped death nearly…………..

According To Steve Jobs- :

“No one wants to die,even people who wants to go to heaven ,don’t want to die to get there, and yet death is a destination that we all share.No one has ever escaped it . Death is very likely the single best invention of life.It is life’s change agent,.It clears out the old to make way for the new.”

“Our time is limited, so we cannot wast it living someone’s else’s life.We should not be trapped by dogma,which is living with the result of other people’s thinking.”

“don’t let the noise of other’s opinions drown out your own inner voice.Most importantly we need to have the courage to follow our heart and intentions,they some how already know what we truly want to become.” Everything else is secondary…………………….